Loving Starts Within
On the Fourth Day of the Omer, as we think about netzach - the self at the center of things - in chesed - loving-kindness, I remember that I cannot give what I do not have.
Without caring about and for myself, I cannot offer caring to others.
Without loving something about myself, I cannot love others.
We begin with the self, and we must move on to love and care others from a foundation within.